I had a nice conversation with big brother, "pang gor gor" few weeks ago. For your information, "gor gor" in Cantonese means "brother". Sometimes I feel that it's really good to have someone who can share with you lots of real life experience. I sincerely appreciate that. There are few points that he shared with me whereby I personally think that those points are useful. Therefore, I would like to share out now.
He mentioned about self-reflection which means self-examination. When you face problems, for example financial problem, family problem & so on, do you really look into yourself, or just keep blaming others? He mentioned a very good point whereby things happen for a reason. You may have done something that make this happen and sometimes you don't even notice about it. Hence, it's very important for us to take times to do self-examination.
Don't ever let your emotion override your mind. Before you do something, you need to ask yourself regarding your "objective" for doing it. Please be "objective" driven, don't just follow your heart. Think carefully before you make any decision.
Keep reminding yourself to cultivate a good habit and good attitude. You can't control how smart you are,but you can control how you manage and face a situation.
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